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Support Your Partner, You're Both in This Together
John Lee 
John Lee
The Sexual Mastery
Contrary to cultural sexual patterns or beliefs drummed into us about what it means to be a good lover and how a "good girl "is supposed to act in bed, good sex is a joint effort. Both need to be active partners. One being passive while the other "does" them isn't it.
Every time you connect, agree where you both want to go together using the three Partnering Questions (desires, concerns, boundaries). Look after yourself and let your partner know how it's going so they can support you. Communicate about what's happening in the moment. Respond to what's going on with your partner.
Work together, no correct that, play together. Remember, you're the two musketeers. All for one and one for all.
As a giver, you want to reassure and comfort your partner. Be a full-time helper during Sacred Gate experiences. When she's open to it, offer her guidance. When she thinks she knows what she wants, let her be in control. If she's struggling, assure her that she doesn't have to do it all by herself and that you're there for her.
When she's having a powerful experience, feel it yourself and enjoy it. When pleasure is your goal, not orgasm, you can only get it right and never get it wrong.
Above all, encourage her to fully receive and absorb all you're giving. In the spirit of true partnership, you know you'll get yours eventually.
That's just a little part of what you need to know to become a better lover, though it is so important, that without this one a further building of better sexual experience can't be accomplished.
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Article submitted Thursday, August 28, 2008
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