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How Do I Get My Ex Back?--- First Avoid These Three Lethal Mistakes
Raj Rishi
Quite possibly your lover left you for greener pastures without any plausible reason. You have been deeply hurt-- more so because you love him with all your heart and soul. You are dying to get him back. As the days pass, the feeling of hurt deepens and affects your normal behavior.
You start crying at every love song you hear on your iPod. You have lost your normal appetite. You keep calling up your ex several times every day. You almost pester him with your non stop text messages and emails.
You keep checking your mails and voice mail to see if he/she called. You are losing your confidence and feeling very low. Your one point focus is to ruminate over why of all the persons this happened to you. You are utterly depressed and keep thinking of ways to somehow spy on him.
You keep mentally rehearsing non stop what you would say to him when he responds to your call.
All these symptoms and lack of self confidence may cause you to do these three silly mistakes which may prove lethal to your efforts to get your ex back.
The first and the most important mistake is to start whining and begging before your ex to come back. Nothing is more repulsive than a person begging for love. Don't talk abjectly trying to convince him that he is the love of your life.
Don't apologize for mistakes you never committed or promise to change yourself without any need to do so. Do not say you can't live without her. A gal always expects her guy to be strong and self confident person who is sure about himself. She does not want a weakling.
Do not try to bribe or buy you ex into accepting you by sending him/her expensive gifts. These cheap tricks are not going to work with real people. They may add insult to injury. It would tantamount to demeaning him and annoying him /her further. Quite possibly you may receive them back broken into pieces.
Do not try to meet or start stalking your ex. Some people start crossing their ways or visiting their houses just to catch their eyes or get some kind of invitation. No body is that foolish.
And if you start stalking, you may even get a very adverse reaction in form of a rebuke or a physical assault.
But what should you do to get your ex back? For that please visit the Magic of Making Up.
Life can never be a smooth walk. There are always pitfalls. If you have succeeded in getting your ex back, next day there may be another problem. So you have to develop an attitude to face them with equanimity. For more information please read Your Instant Life Revolution.
Article submitted Saturday, September 06, 2008
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